It's just landed. Here's what to do tonight.

Your free First Night Plan: two pages that get you through tonight and your first week, without making it worse.

What's inside

  • Tonight: calm your head in 60 seconds, and the three things not to do
  • This week: where you actually stand, and what happens next, in order
  • Your kids: how to plan telling them, with your ex
  • Your solicitor: go in with your questions ready, not paying them to listen

You've already done the hardest bit by looking for help. This shows you the next step.

Written by a dad who's been there

I went through a thirty-month divorce and found nothing that helped with the side of it that was eating me alive. So I built it. Recommended by UK family lawyers.

Andy Heath, founder, Divorce Strength

Alex M, E Sussex

โ€œItโ€™s a tremendous piece of work โ€“ really well structured and nicely broken down into manageable, bite-sized pieces to ensure it doesnโ€™t become too overwhelming. I feel in a relatively good place for the first time in 5 months.โ€

This is general guidance based on personal experience. It's not legal, medical or professional advice. For decisions about your home, money or children, speak to a family solicitor.

If things feel too heavy, Samaritans are free to call, any time, day or night: 116 123.